The need to be loved

so lately i have been pondering about the need that everyone in this world has to be loved by another, everone has the need wether they realize it or not, but i have discovered that most people have the need for love from the opposite sex, especially teenagers, why is it that the teenage harmone desires this kind of love, is it truly love or is it a lustful love. why is it then when one gets out of a realationship that they know they got out of for a good reason, why is it that they want that kind of love back in there lives right away. Its kinda hard to explain what im trying to say really. but girls have this thing it seems that 90% of the time they are the ones that chose to end a relationship for whatever reason, and then they are the one's that look like the bad guy, then the guy is devistated making the girl feel so much more worse and its kinda just a snowball effect after that. but as soon as the girl is over it they all of a sudden want another person to care for them and love them and just have that speacial someone, and the process starts all over again. i guess im just so confused right now because how do you know that the realationship that you are getting into is going to be one that will end happily, one that will last forever, you know finding the right guy to have and to hold for eternity. how do you know he is going to be the right one, how do you let go of past realationships and learn to trust another person in your life, frankly i believe that it is quite scary, and the thought of it is exiting in a way but also scary. And how is it that some couples have known each other all there lives and then one day all of a sudden they are attracted to each other, they had been standing there their whole life and then all of a sudden they begin to feel somehting for that person, but its that kind of awquered beginning it seems, really i dont know anything about love or realtionships, like how fast is to fast, or how to learn to be patient with the situation and let the guy just make the first move, even though they never do, or is it that a women is just to impatient , i think that could be it most of the time, the women doesn't allow the boy enough time to take that step, LOL but really its just a crazy game, the game of love, and you know what i like it, its exiting, even when a person like me has come out of a realtionship where she was almost married, its still a great game, its what you make of it really. the lord wants us to explore our opstions he wants us to date many different people, and get to know many of them, but one day you do have to decide i guess thats the hardest part. LOL this entry is kinda a mess i dont think i really even stated what i wanted to but oh well